houseguest, kids and peace

three things i have on my mind don't really go together at all, but i am going to lump them together into one blog post.

houseguest
my high school art teacher is coming to stay with me for somewhere between 5 to 9 days. i don't know for how long, honestly. he's getting to town tonight and leaving the 24th. that's really all i know. the problem is that i think we lead kind of different lifestyles. ooh, speaking of lifestyles, i have a fourth topic for my posting: phone sex. but that's another story for later. so this art teacher is of a very different religious faith than i am. i think he is offended by foul language and movies of a sexual nature. he doesn't drink at all--although i think he'll go to a happy hour every now and then. i'm not really sure what to do with him, really. when i asked him what he wanted to do, he said he would like to cook for us. that's really nice, but it's not going to fill up 9 days. i guess we'll see. i'm feeling a little anxious about the whole thing.

next topic: kids
my husband and i talked about when we'd like to have kids. he wants them sooner than later. i want them not really at all. we decided two years is a good compromise.
ugh

next: peace
i feel most at peace when i'm snowboarding. the cold wind barely leaking through my goggles, puffs of powdery snow wisping to each side... just the slightest move alters my direction and i'm always just a tiny wrong movement away from a crash... and yet i glide along, blissfully unaware of how i look or who's watching. just feeling in control of my body, but only barely. it's amazing.

and finally: phone sex
our bowling partner has a second job as a phone sex operator on the weekends. she just told me about it monday league night. next week she's going to bring some items from her "treasure chest" and have us play for sexual prizes. i don't know how i feel about it, really. kind of freaked out to tell the truth. i'll write about it if it's anything good.